The clock ticks 6:45 and i know its time to retire especially with my leg getting swollen. Todays hasnt been a great day either .Starting off from what happened last night i jus moved in to classes and bunked the afternoon lecture, ufff i was just not interested in sitting through those long semantic and macros (cheeee :P ) .And as it happened i wanst there online much too. For there really was none to bug. Anna was out all day , Moti bsy with things, no rohit :) little of danny and zero of babes :( .The day is ending and im jus happy it has. Hoping for a brighter tomm.
Its amazing u get used to bug people all day and suddenly one day it happens there is none to bug and u start feelin like others ha ha ordinary :) Just wondering where my energy went up
taggy :)
I was at home this weekend and there was this school gal who came up to meet me.Its been 3 years since we met and the minute she saw me working on a black terminal with all chartacters on keyboard jumping on to screen(OOps! i was only building Ooo1.9 and yeah did i tell u .it takes 12 hrs to build them). The furst thing she uttered was “Geek” yes i nodded , for i knew long ago i didntfit the normal social expectations level. iam a geek. :)
She was asking me out :) a rare thing really was and we just sat down upon talking about this.She wasnt new to geek world ! she being a CS UG at iitm knew more than that.
The first question that came up ” thyagu u got a gf man ? “
I said NO ( and a wry smile across her face she expected this answer. Looking at my dirty tshirt and watchless wrist , torn jeans she said no wonder dude!! )
I asked if her if she would ever date a geek.Just go out on a dinner may be ? and then she immediately popped up a next question .
How would i behave? how would i ask a geek out !! i sat down remembering all the thinsg i had read :) i knew about myself and then came the list …
- Don’t say it, email it: The power of the written word, errr…typed word, I mean the power of email. Do not take this lightly. If you want your geek to do something for you or to remember it, be it taking the trash out on Thursdays or your Mother’s birthday present or dinner with the neighbors, don’t tell him, send him an email about it. Better yet.
- Don’t boycott geek dinners. Attend a few with your geeky lover. Get to know his friends. Get to know him in his element. Believe me, you can have fun in geek dinners.
- Do appreciate his honesty, but Don’t expect much diplomacy. Let’s be realistic. Your geek is not going to be the one who has a way with words. He is not going to be the most charming lad you met. And there is a chance that he might be so straight forward sometimes that he could hurt your feelings. Please understand that he doesn’t mean to offend. He just doesn’t know any other way. Please remember that he also won’t play mind games with you and with him, what you see is what you get. So in the long run, it is better to be with an honest geek than a charming freak.
- Do enjoy his attention and passion. Geeks are intense and passionate about subjects of their desire. Your geeky lover will be the most passionate mate you have ever known. be it books , movies ,writing , trekking or lying down on the sand on a shivery night .. try to enjoy Enjoy!
- Geeks are more patient. Whether they get it from sitting in front of computers writing hundreds of lines of code to create a fraction of a program or the t-shirt and jean culture they work in day to day (more casual), geeks seem to take everything in stride. I’m a high maintenance girl and get a little moody from time to time. I find geeks’ logical problem solving ways are very effective in getting me beyond my bitchiness and back to reality.
Whats in a geek :) ha ! u know it !! :P
As i kept checking everything down she realised i wasnt being entirely wrong ! i had my reasons to be the way iam :) probably !u havent been used to a life far more intresting and fun ….
When i finsihed saying this i had this terribly serious look on my face she realised :p taggy had gone senti :p she burst out laughin ! she knew exactly what i was saying some guy was talking the same about her she was a geek tooo …
I was roaming arnd in the blogspots when i came up to this SITE
It was on pain and i suddenly relaised i had a fresh wound on my thighs. from the last night accident.
Pain is painful yes but its also a great reminder.When you are in pain and in comes a shoulder to lean upon and u realise somone loves you.
Pain hurts yes and when it really hurts you , u just survive through the times and u realise pain is over and u have overcome it, pride fills in when u know u have something special that enabled u to overcome the pain.
Pain is a n emotion! when u see ur frnd in tears , ur eyes get wet . Why do u think so ?
“you feel the pain of your friend dont you ? “
there is something very beautiful abt this and i thought may be i shud share it with u all :)
Thanks for those love showered in pains, the pain has vanished not the love , not the people.
“If everyday morning you get up and realise this could be your last day ,Some day you are surely going to be right “
Yesterday for a split second i really did think i was .Having waited for some half an hour for the auto and not seeing any in sight i finally decided to jump in to the crowded Share auto system.I was asked to sit in the fron alongside the driver and as he was racing through the Lucas stop and Tata Sumo came crashing in our vehicle ,turning it upside down and i was sent flying in air luckily i fell on a heap of sand which was there for constructions.All that i remembered was a speeding jeep crashing in to this small vehicle and thats it ! blind i go and i realise iam on a heap of sand.The policeman came running towards me trying to tak eme out and only when i got up i realised a iron rod had pierced in to my pant and leg. a little blood oozing out . I didnt say anything turned back to see peolpe lying around i was taken to a local hospital and in some 40 min i was done with dressing.
I thought going back home would give a lot of tension to amma may be !so i jus picked up my bag and walked ha ! rather limping along to the bus stop . And i was in to bus and here now in trichy.
It was scary to be there but now when i look at it ,its amazing too, just a thin line of difference between a man and his soul.
jus a few seconds and i would have made the transition by now :)
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taggy
