To fall or not to ..
Posted on 22nd March 2006 by TaggyA couple of days EARLIER i was reading to a girls weblog, which talked about breakups and possibility of reunions.
At the start let me declare i still very firmly believe in the theory of (firstlove–>marriage).For a relationship to work ,You have to make it work .
But somehow today as i look around myself, People seem to move in and out of relationships easily enough.probably its the lack of a real attitude in to a relationship or they have a deep faith in indian population rate.You know, there never is going to be a shortage of boys or girls.
There can be many reasons why a relationship wont work, but i always thot there is one reason why u shud make a relationship work and the reason is none other than YOURSELF.
And past scars make you not go back to the previous relations.And most of the time people end up crying for the lost relations than to make it work again. I surely feel no shame in goingback to your past and try and see if you can correct them,no matter how harsh it and afterall the person u loved is just another person.And mind you i say all this assuming “You still love the person “.Which is true in most cases, the first love ceases to go out of memory. and all other attempts at falling become more a medicine for the past hurtings than just a genuine love.
And in most cases if ou are weak enough , umight just be taken for a emotional roller coster again.This is one of the first reasons i always believed one should try and look to see through your first love i remember the first time i saw someone comeup like this ,it was with goddess.
and trust me ,the minute she let people know she had brokenup, and given the fact she is very pretty ,Suddenly a whole swarm of would be emerged and everyone was sweet atleast thats how they sound.For a second she did confide , she might fall in for someone , and i realise how scared i was.For i knew most o fthese guys here and i also knew what men can do with a gal who is weak enough on morale.and it took some long hours of talks to get her back to thinking abt her ex :) an dit did work.They came together and the love only increased. And if hs ehad chosen ,and the reason she gave for the split,inability of men to commit.well thats something which comes upon in every phase and its jus so easy to throw away a relationship in words and i am sure its 1000 times difficult to really discard it.
In a case where the split is really an uncommited love,then the option obviosuly is to look for another love .But how do u do it ?
posted on March 22nd 2006i do agree to you taggy, that if you want it to work you have to make it work, but i’d like to add… it takes two to make it work :)
posted on March 23rd 2006i second that!
People really do want their first love to come true tags! they really, genuinely wanna stay with their special somone! but what if the other person does not consider you so spl? its easier for guys to move off, they don’t attach emotions to relationships nowadays… its just time pass for them! women are not like that taggy!
posted on March 23rd 2006
